Memorial Day hosting tips

Memorial Day weekend marks the unofficial start of summer and is a chance to bring friends and family together, and most importantly, and most importantly, make time for reflection and remembrance. Here’s how to throw a celebration that feels easy, looks polished and keeps the spirit of the day intact.

Set the scene

Whether it’s a classic backyard BBQ or a coastal-chic pool party, pick a theme that will anchor your celebration. It doesn’t have to be over-the-top, but subtle touches like red, white and blue linens or nautical accents go a long way. Even little nods to Americana like striped napkins or vintage Coke bottles can elevate the scene without being kitschy.Pro tip: Fresh florals can make a simple setting feel refined. Hydrangeas and peonies are always in-season stunners.

Plan a crowd-pleasing menu

If you’re cooking, keep it simple and seasonal, but never boring. Gourmet burgers with brioche buns or slow roasted meats with an assortment of sides. Always include plenty of fresh salads and fruit to keep things cool and be sure to have a few gluten-free, vegetarian and kid-friendly options so everyone leaves happy (and full). Add in a DIY ice cream sundae bar for a sweet finish that everyone will love.Not a fan of manning the grill? No shame in outsourcing. Just be sure your caterer matches the vibe. Your favorite sushi place may not scream “holiday weekend,” but a smoked brisket platter with artisanal fixings? That’s a win.

Keep your guests entertained

Activities are optional but appreciated, especially if you’re hosting a mix of ages. Set up lawn games like cornhole or bocce or even an arts and crafts table for kids. Organize a casual pool volleyball match or hilarious float race. Set the tone with a curated playlist, or even screen a classic American movie under the stars.

Prep like a pro

No one wants to be frantically chopping herbs or hiding delivery boxes when guests start arriving. Prep what you can in the days leading up to your party, like the tablescape, playlist, guest towels, and make a checklist to stay on track.

Always have a backup plan

Even in sunny locales, May can throw curveballs like May Gray in SoCal or unexpected showers in the Hamptons. Make sure you’ve got an indoor space ready or a stylish tent setup that doesn’t feel like an afterthought. Have extra throws or pashminas on hand for your guests on cooler evenings. Thoughtful gestures make a big difference.

Honor the meaning behind the day

It’s easy to get swept up in the rosé and ribs, but don’t forget the real reason we gather. Bring out an American flag and keep it at half-staff until noon and consider observing a moment of silence to remember the men and women who gave their lives in service. You could even include a small table with a framed photo or tribute for a meaningful touch.You don’t need fireworks or fanfare to host a beautiful Memorial Day get together. Just good food, great company and a touch of thoughtful planning.